Didn't work out...still lost and confused!

Well, the group home for DT didn't work out...and I had convinced myself that "this time" it would. As I understand, after all the waiting and paperwork that we have done...the group home isn't going to do all that is required to become an adult living facility and so DT doesn't qualify to live there. I'm so disappointed, I really had thought that this home was the "one" that we were waiting for...the one that was coming and all the other disappointments would be forgotten. This was the worst of all because it would have been great! I'm sooooo ready to live closer to work, and stop spending so much time and money driving back and forth to Richmond! Now I have to decide whether to move to Williamsburg and suck it up so that DT will be where she needs to be...or do I finally get to do what I want to do for me? I have such a headache right now I can't even think...I'll blog more later.